The Myth of Why You Thrive Under Pressure (And What It’s Really Doing to You)

Do you really ‘thrive under pressure’?

I was talking to someone recently who told me that she always leaves things to the last minute and she ‘kind of thrives under pressure’. I have seen this to be such a common way of working and maybe it’s something you do. Often we know about a deadline months in advance, but because the project we need to complete is something we don’t enjoy doing we leave it till the last minute. We leave it until we absolutely have to do it.

Our culture romanticises the frantic, eleventh-hour scramble to meet a deadline. How many films have you watched this play out in? It’s ‘boring’ to be organised and finish in plenty of time. It’s much more exciting and trendy and probably will keep us watching if the star of the show is putting the finishing touches to their new magazine a minute before it goes to print. But that’s not real life is it?

We can laugh at the film and enjoy watching the characters endure caffeine-fuelled all nighters, leading to caffeine-fuelled mornings. But is that really how you want your life to be? I would say that  it shouldn’t be. When you’re watching this in a film you don’t have to endure the physical effects of being up until 2am several nights in a row and trying to get the kids ready for school when you’ve only had four hours of sleep.

Unfortunately people tend to talk about always leaving things to the last minute with a sense of pride; telling their friends how they can survive with very little sleep, on a diet of tea and beans on toast and how this means that they’re successful.

But here is the uncomfortable truth: You aren't thriving; you’re just surviving.

I believe the idea that being under pressure enhances your performance is one of the most persistent myths in the modern workplace. While stress can certainly act as a catalyst to get you moving, i.e. to stop you procrastinating it is not a sustainable system that you should be using to manage your time. By working in this way, believing the myth that you "thrive under pressure" narrative, you aren’t becoming more efficient—you are simply storing up significant health problems in the future for a short-term hit of cortisol now.

The Science Behind Why You Think You Thrive Under Pressure

To understand why we believe this myth, we have to look at what happens inside the brain when a deadline looms. If you’ve been in my world for any length of time you will have heard me talk about the motivational triad of your primitive brain. That’s the part of our brains that has kept up alive since human beings started roaming the planet. Your primitive brain is designed to make you avoid pain, seek pleasure and conserve energy.

When you leave a task until the last possible moment, your brain perceives the looming deadline as a threat and spurs you into action. It wants you to avoid the pain of missing the deadline and this desire outweighs the need to seek pleasure and conserve energy. When the deadline is far away your primitive brain is focusing more on the uncomfortableness of having to do the task – that is the threat – rather than the deadline, which seems like a long way off.  

When the deadline begins to loom large you no longer have the luxury of procrastination and your brain becomes laser-focused on meeting the deadline or at least avoiding the serious consequences of not meeting it. This sudden change can feel like a superpower. You think, "Wow, I’ve done more in the last three hours than I did all week!"

There’s no time for those moments of inspiration when you’re walking the dog

The Negative Effects on Your Work

Now whilst this might feel good working in this way negatively affects the quality of the work that you will be producing. Research consistently shows that while high pressure might help with easy tasks such as tidying the house when visitors are due in an hour, it is not good in more complex situations:

• Problem Solving: Your brain lacks the "breathing room" to explore multiple variables. Basically you haven’t got time to explore all the options and you’ll limit yourself thereby reducing the quality of your product.

• Space for your subconscious: When I was working as a social worker I often found that if I spread the writing of a report over a couple of weeks my unconscious brain would be working in the background on the situation I was trying to address and make recommendations about. If I left it too late my brain didn’t have time to come up with a good solution and that increased the stress. It wasn’t the actual writing of the report that was the problem, it was the value of what it said that was reduced.

• Accuracy: When you work under extreme pressure, you aren't producing your best work; you are producing your fastest work. There is a profound difference between a product that is "good enough to pass" and a product that is truly excellent. By leaving things until the last minute, you lose the chance to step away, come back with fresh eyes, and refine your ideas. You are essentially settling for the first draft of your thoughts. Going back to the example of my report writing, the quality of what I produced was increased enormously by writing a draft and coming back to it a couple of days later. I would notice passages that didn’t flow and embarrassing typos that I couldn’t see when I was rushing.

The Cost of the Last Minute Sprint

At this point you might be asking yourself, if I get the work done, what’s the problem? The truth is that the "thrive under pressure" lifestyle carries hidden costs that eventually come back to bite you. My Pilates teacher always says that doing a few minutes of exercise every day is like putting a deposit into your health bank account. At the time you can’t always see the benefit but over the months and years the positive effect increases exponentially and you begin to see the benefits. When you’re ill or have an accident you’re more likely to recover quickly because of being fit from the regular exercise you’ve taken the time to do. Last minute, mad rush working is having the opposite effect. It is constantly withdrawing from your ‘wellbeing bank account’.

1. The Relationship Toll

You do not live on the moon and if you’re always practising "leave it till the last-minute" there will be other people close to you who have to deal with the fallout of this. Whether it’s a husband who has to cook dinner every night and get the kids to bed on his own because you’re up against it or colleagues who are waiting for your contribution to finish their own tasks, your "thriving" often causes others to suffer. Even though you might not want to admit it chronic pressure makes us grumpy and irritable. When you’re feeling stressed it’s very hard for this not to affect how you behave towards other people in your life.

2. The "Stress Hangover"

After the mad rush comes the inevitable crash. That feeling of complete physical exhaustion where it takes enormous effort just to lift your head off the pillow in the morning, let alone get out of bed. The house is a tip, you haven’t washed your hair for days and the fridge contains a shrivelled cucumber and a mouldy block of cheese. It takes time to recover and get back to ‘normal’. During this time your productivity is going to be at rock bottom. It can feel like a constant cycle of frantic creation followed by days or weeks doing the bare minimum.

You need to stop valuing stressful sprints and start valuing being consistent

Redefining Productivity: From Intensity to Consistency

If you want to stop relying on the "thrive under pressure" cycle you need to change how you see the work process itself. You need to move away from valuing intensity and start valuing consistency.

The most difficult part of any project is the beginning. Instead of waiting for the "spark" of a deadline, commit to just thirty minutes a day, over time chipping away at the project. Tell yourself it doesn't have to be good; you just have to start. When you try this you’ll discover that getting started is the hard part. Once you’ve mastered this you might just get ‘in the flow’ and complete more than you’d thought.

When you start early, even if you only do a little bit, your subconscious begins working on the problem in the background. You’ll find solutions while you’re walking the dog or making tea—moments that are completely unavailable to someone working in a frantic 2:00 AM panic.

Next time you feel tempted to delay, remind yourself that the "efficiency" of the last minute is an illusion. You aren't saving time; you are just concentrating your stress into a smaller window, which will eventually cost you more in recovery time and health.

Conclusion

It is time we stopped glorifying the "thrive under pressure" narrative. It is an unsustainable way to live and a mediocre way to work. Real success isn't found in the frantic scramble; it’s found in the quiet, disciplined, and thoughtful application of your skills over time. You don’t need the adrenaline. You don’t need the panic. You just need the courage to start before you feel "ready."Let’s leave the "crunch" behind and aim for something better: Thriving under peace.

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